In the story about the choosy girl who was not satisfied with everything. In my personal opinion, the incident happened to her is part of the work of God to make her realized. She did not satisfied all the time, she complaint this and that, she never satisfy before. Her parents would like her to marry a good man, however, after seeing men, she would complaint about this and that. For example, “he is not handsome enough, he is too fat, and he is too thin…”
This girl never thinks of that if she is choosy and how about other people? Other people also choosy on the girl. It tells us that if you choosy and picky in someone in marriage, someone would also choosy and picky and they have rights not to choose the girls as well. All have the equal rights to choose and pick the best. We have lots of chances to meet the one that really fit for us.
Indeed the girl is also irrational don’t have any common senses as she never thinks of her own situation when she saw the handsome man. she make decision to follow and marry him without knowing this handsome man. Her parents even advise her to consider thoroughly before making decision. She refused to listen to her parents and making her own decision by marrying the man whom he did not know.
The girls also only look for the man physical appearance. She quickly promises to marry the man as he is so good looking and soft talking to her. I think this is what the girl wants. The handsome man and be nice to her and talk politely and treats her well. She is willing to leave her parents with the man whom she did not know. This is terribly dangerous.
The girl reflects to the teenagers nowadays. They think they are knowledgeable enough to survive in the community, they think that they are big enough and they are better than their parents.
Once parents can’t meet their wants, therefore, they think that they are not satisfied, they need more freedom. They want to live on their way of life, not being supervised by their parents. Especially girls are dangerous. They may be cheated by the talk of t he men or the men just treat them nicely , having their wants fulfilled, then, ask the girls to do something in return. Now, the girls are running away from house to the men. Many cases from newspapers being reported that missing girls or runaways girls from home usually end up being slave of the men to earn money for them. If they tried to run away, they will be kicked or being beaten up. So girls are more to be careful.
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